Dating advice for seniors
If you feel like the person across the table is patronizing you — if, for example, he or she suggests you're wasting your life teaching school when the "real" money's in business — simply say, "Thanks for the coffee date" and head for the door.
A lack of respect is unacceptable under any circumstances.
During the 60s and 70s, moving in with your sweetheart was so common and freewheeling that it earned the dubious label, “shacking up.”Years ago, most widows didn’t remarry or even date again after the death of their husband.
Although this choice is right for some women, others want a new next chapter that includes life with another partner.
Today, people are increasingly getting together through online dating — especially if they’re over 50.I’ve talked to lots of women over 60 and almost always the biggest fear they share with me is the thought of being alone forever.In their mind, they’re not sure a man will want them at this age so when a good-looking man starts paying attention to them online, they feel special, desired and wanted.But watch out for those jitters — they can make you feel so anxious that you project your own hopes on to this new person, rather than noticing his or her true nature. Ask questions about the issues that matter most to you. On a date not too long ago, I worried I'd been hit by lightning. That view discounts the possibility of magic — an undeniable resonance that a man and woman feel for each other, often right from the start. All in all it was not too different from being back in 7th grade again, summoning the gumption to ask Nancy Morris to dance for the very first time.